Q1: "I have been liking this guy for about 5 years, he's moved on but I can't. Help?"
Ok, so I have defiantly been there, but I would say the best thing to do was get your mind off him. There are so many guys who would be lucky to have you, and also time heals everything so I know it hurts but it will be ok in the end :)
Q2: " There is a rumor spreading around school that my friend is not pretty. I have never had a rumor spread about someone close to me, Im sorry if this sounds stupid but I just don't know what to do."
Honestly rumors are normally spread about people they are jealous of, and you shouldn't let something small like that get her down. Remember you are strong and beautiful and so is your friend, and you just need to keep telling her that. I hope she doesn't think that, and im not saying it's a bad thing to be insecure because everyone has their own opinion. I think you should try to be there for her as much as you can, and be her wing women, I suppose. Don't make decisions for her though, it might hurt her more than help her.
Q3: "My close friend has been shutting me out. Sometimes she acts like we are best friends and other days she gives me the cold shoulder. Im not sure if I should talk to her about it because I hate it when we fight."
Confront her. It might seem scary at first but sometimes you need to talk it out before it gets any worse. Ask her about it when you two are alone in case of any outbursts, or pull her aside. I wouldn't recommend texting her because it is just better to talk face to face (trust me on this) I know it might be hard to confront her face to face, but it just feels a lot better.
Q4: "There is this cute boy at school that I like, he's not really shy but I am super nervous to talk to him and I stutter a lot. Is there any way I could boost my confidence or start a conversation?"
This might sound silly, but try having a conversation in the mirror, pretending your reflection is him. Smile a lot (makes you seem approachable and happy), and have good posture. What this will do is make you seem very confident and makes you feel it too!
Start up a simple convo about basic stuff (his shoes, sports, same teacher, hw, music, or even the weather) it might not be the most interesting thing to start of with, but at least you can get him talking. Once you start up a couple of these you can get into more interesting topics, and eventually get his number. A good way to bond with guys is by playing truth (like truth or dare, just minus the dare) when your texting so you can get to know him without seeming clingy!
Q5: "I have anxiety. I don't know how to control it, and I feel like its taking over my life. What should I do?"
Take a deep breath, its going to be ok. Not everyone has anxiety, but everyone can't control how they feel. There isn't really a way to stop it, but anxiety normally occurs when you are put in a frustrated or scared mood, and often occurs in the same setting, so if you can try to avoid those crucial areas. Remember to take deep slow breath, drink lots of water, and meditate before school, work, etc.
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